Very Alternative Gathering

Our core group are experienced Wellington Kinksters who are bringing their knowledge and experience to the paddock for the benefit of all who are interested to learn. Join us for Parties, Workshops and Discussions.
Consent is important to us and hence there is no pressure to be, do or see anything you do not wish to.
Come down and visit, and feel free to ask questions and chat

Events

Thursday 28 January 2021

Sensual spanking workshop

4:00 pm - 7:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

An introduction in to how to give and receive the ideal spanking for your bottom, from soft and sensual to intense and invigorating! A chance to watch, learn and practice with your partner under the supervision of Lady Catherine, a professional Dominatrix based in Auckland. Spaces will be limited, and a partner is required.

Workshop

Thursday

18+ (BDSM)

Shibari for Beginners

7:00 pm - 8:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

Shibari is the Japanese art of rope bondage. We will talk about safety considerations and then you will learn the fundamental first tie of Shibari – single column tie. If we have time we can move on to another decorative or fun tie. We will be running an intermediate class on Saturday 2pm. Why knot join us?

Workshop

Thursday, Friday

18+ (BDSM)

Friday 29 January 2021

Intimate/Connective rope play for partners

12:15 pm - 2:45 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

So you've been to our rope workshops and you're ready to dive in deeper? How do you make rope play work in the bedroom and take to another level of intimacy? How can something like rope help you connect with each other?
Basic rope tying skills (Single/Double column tie) are required for this workshop.
Maximum of 4 partners per session. Sign up at our camp entrance.

Workshop

Friday

18+ (BDSM)

Polyamorous Gathering

2:15 pm - 3:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

An informal gathering for people currently engaging in or interested in non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Let's gather to chat, discuss, debate & ask questions with some experienced polycules.

Discussion / Conversation

Friday

Kinky Safety & Etiquette, Consent and Negotiation

3:15 pm - 4:30 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

This talk is a prerequisite for the "Very Alternative Play Party" 8.30pm Friday. We will discuss safety considerations with kinky toys and play equipment, talk about the etiquette of attending a play party, remind everyone about consent and talk about negotiation. Here you will receive your entry pass to the main event!

Talk / Lecture

Friday

18+ (BDSM)

Shibari for Beginners

7:00 pm - 8:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

Shibari is the Japanese art of rope bondage. We will talk about safety considerations and then you will learn the fundamental first tie of Shibari – single column tie. If we have time we can move on to another decorative or fun tie. We will be running an intermediate class on Saturday 2pm. Why knot join us?

Workshop

Thursday, Friday

18+ (BDSM)

Very Alternative Play Party

8:30 pm - 2:00 am at Very Alternative Gathering

Explore the sensual art of BDSM, make use of our custom made equipment and get high on endorphins! Warning: This adult party has a prerequisite to attend "kinky safety & etiquette, consent negotiation" workshop 3pm Friday. The exciting but safe, sane and consensual play party at KB20 was such a success that we have brought it back this year!

Party

Friday

18+ (Sexual Content, BDSM)

Saturday 30 January 2021

Shibari for Intermediate Level

2:00 pm - 3:15 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

If you have previous experience or you've attended our beginners classes on Thursday and Fri 7pm, then you might be ready for something a little more intricate. Here we will be looking at extending our knowledge and sharing our skills. Maybe a simple chest or hip harness. So many possibilities.

Workshop

Saturday

18+ (BDSM)

Booty Bounce Twerkshop

3:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

Come and learn some poppin’ moves to make that booty move like an assquake, we’ve got some seasoned booty bouncers here and we wanna share some sweet moves! Once we’ve all got acquainted with our derrières, we’ve got some lapdance tips and tricks: the do’s and don’t’s of the lap, if you will!

Performance, Workshop

Saturday

18+ (Sexual Content)

Sunday 31 January 2021

Femme Dom Hangover Tea Party

10:30 am - 11:30 am at Very Alternative Gathering

Are you a femme dom? Or do you wish to worship and serve femme doms? Then this is the hangover event for you! Please bring any snacks or drinks to share (some orange juice, tea and snacks will be provided) and be prepared to be worshipped or provide worship (depending on your preference). Worship to be negotiated between individual participants, human furniture welcome.

Chillout, Discussion / Conversation

Sunday

18+ (BDSM)

Kink demos and discussion

12:30 pm - 2:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

What’s the difference between erotic and kinky? Erotic is when you use a feather, kinky is when you use the whole chicken!
Keen to dive (or dip your toes) into the world of kink? Come and find out about some of our favourite fetishes from a panel of delightful deviants, see some demos and a show n tell of some of our fetish gear. (No real animals will be harmed, only human animals)

Discussion / Conversation, Performance, Talk / Lecture

Sunday

18+ (Sexual Content, BDSM, Violence)

Intimate/Connective rope play for partners

3:00 pm - 5:30 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

So you've been to our rope workshops and you're ready to dive in deeper? How do you make rope play work in the bedroom and take to another level of intimacy? How can something like rope help you connect with each other?
Basic rope tying skills (Single/Double column tie) are required for this workshop.
Maximum of 4 partners per session. Sign up at our camp entrance.

Workshop

Sunday

18+ (BDSM)

Pup/Pet Play 101

4:00 pm at Very Alternative Gathering

A 101 workshop on how to start getting into pet play, specifically pup play! We’ll have advice on getting gear on a budget, approaching the topic with your partner, non-verbal signals and more! Whether you’re well experienced or entirely new, everyone is welcome!

Discussion / Conversation, Workshop

Sunday

18+ (Sexual Content, BDSM)

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